Friday, July 27, 2007

Take One

Our first attempt uploading video footage to YouTube, here is a short clip also taken at the farm yesterday. I know some of you with children this age regularly experience the pleasure of having your children entertain themselves/each other. That's still an unfamiliar experience in our household, where Edith remains keen on adult participation, so this brief respite in which E and H entertained each other was exciting. Of course, it was only a minute, and I spent it filming them. But maybe it's a herald of things to come.

The conversation* the first time they're sitting is:

H: 'Gain, Edith!
E: Yeah, we do need do it again.

And the second time:

E: See that? I got a bug bite. It's red.
H: You got a Band-aid. See? She got a Band-aid.

*transcript revised after listening to the clip on a more powerful set of computer speakers

Thursday, July 26, 2007

The Farm

Thursdays are special this summer. That's the day I pick Edith up from daycare and we head out to "Cherry Gwove." I don't know why it's named that, since as far as we know they don't grow cherries. But they do grow lots of other delicious things, and for six months of the year we get to partake of the goodness...for less than it would cost us to take one overnight getaway anywhere in the U.S.

I've enjoyed having a CSA vegetable farmshare for all the fresh, organic vegetables it brings into our lives. Usually paralyzed by the range of choice in the grocery store and the limitless options in the cookbooks, I like that someone else decides what we get and how much we get of it. Each week the bins are labeled: 10 bell peppers, 6 lbs. tomatoes, 2 bunches toscano kale, 1 bunch red Russian kale, etc. Presented with my array of ingredients, it then becomes an entirely manageable task, even a treasure hunt, to go looking for appealing recipes that use what we have. The manager at the farm once described one's first experience as a CSA member as "the summer one learns what to do with kale."

Some CSAs deliver shares to a central location close to an urban center or even bring them to people's homes. Others pack them into boxes that are waiting for pick-up. Cherry Grove, on the other hand, requires that we come out to the farm not only to pick up our veggies each week but to choose them from the bins, weigh them, and bag them. There are even a number of things we have to go into the fields to harvest for ourselves: peas, beans, and flowers, for example.

But to be honest, that is what I like the best about our farmshare. Picking up a box downtown wouldn't have nearly the appeal for me. The fun is actually going out to the land where the food was grown and gathering it all up. The farm is an open, green, relaxing place, the farmers are low-key and friendly, picking is therapeutic, and so the little trip is a positive pleasure each week.

To my delight, Edith has grown to like this weekly outing, too. She is eager to help me weigh out the loose-leaf salad greens on the big scales, then shovel them into a waiting bag. She likes choosing which zucchinis and squash we should bring home. She loved picking peas at the beginning of the summer. I even let her carry the clippers out to the rows of flowers. (Her mama's daughter, she asks about the flowers first thing when we arrive.)

It is also the one hour of the week when Edith eats vegetables with gusto. Like me, she finds something magically delicious about those tomatoes and peppers right off the vine. Once we've transported them home and stored them in the vegetable bin in the refrigerator for a few days she isn't nearly so keen. But on Thursdays from 5:30-7, she is a fan.

Today Edith polished off two tomatoes...


...and one purple pepper before we left the farm. It's too bad pea season is over: She'd eat a pint of snap peas almost as fast as I could pick it. She still asks for them each week. Part of the fun of having a farmshare is teaching Edith the idea that foods have different seasons...and learning just what those are myself.

Beans, which came in today, were harder to pick than peas--not trained up poles, they were low to the ground and required us to squat and peek under all the broad leaves. There were green beans and a waxy cream-and-purple variegated bean that I think is called a dragon bean, or something like that. Another benefit of the share is learning about the variety of vegetables that exist--far more than ever make it to the grocery store. I'm eager for the heirloom tomato varieties to come in.

As the numbers above suggest, a share includes a lot of food. We split ours with Harry's family and Desi's family, which is another part of the fun. At least, theoretically: While we enjoy meeting weekly out at the farm, it's admittedly a lot harder to gather vegetables and figure out how to split them up while keeping an eye on three toddlers, all apt to head in different directions at once. Today I caught Harry in an uncharacteristically tranquil moment amidst the pepper plants.


Monday, July 23, 2007

Sunday conversations

Puhleeze, Daddy
Tom: "Oooh, Edie, I'm dancing...dancing...Want to dance with me?"
Edith: "Daddy. There's no music."
Doh.

Puhleeze, Mommy
Edith, picking up a yogurt lid: "Trash."
Gretchen, reading the fine print that says with ten lids you can get a free chocolate bar: "No, it's not. Give that to me, Edith. I want to save it."
Edith: "Mommy, you save trash?"

And just in case I didn't get the idea:

"Mommy, you make me crazy."

Edith's Secret Life
Watching a little girl and boy with their mother, observing that they have the same mother.
Gretchen: "Yes, because they're brother and sister. You don't have any brothers and sisters."
Edith: "But that's okay, because I have husbands."

Friday, July 20, 2007

Hip to the action


Okay, we're posers. I've only read the first Harry Potter book and Tom has read none (though he worked the midnight releases of Books 5 and 6 in his bookseller days). But with the hoopla across the street at Barnes & Noble rivaling community celebrations on the 4th of July or Halloween, we didn't want to be left out of the excitment. Especially with a kid named Harry in our midst. So we took E and H over to see the scene.

It's a good thing we walked--at 8:15 the whole mall parking lot was full, and people were circling desperately. If we'd been more on top of things, we'd have arranged to sell parking spaces at our apartment complex for $5 a pop.

Tom had promised Edith live owls based on the previous two releases he'd seen at B&N; it's probably good they weren't part of tonight's program, or they would have been frightened out of their wits. There were people everywhere, camped out with lawn chairs, blankets, pillows, and pizzas behind rope lines up and down the halls of the mall. Not planning on purchasing a book, we could skip all that and go straight to the face painting. Edith was delighted with the cat on her cheek, and she and Harry seemed quite pleased to make the acquaintance of the Other Harry, above. I wish I could post the Polaroid version of the photo taken for us by a B&N employee. Above Harry Potter's hand all the lights of the mall, reflecting off its skylights, are a blurry, mystical green, as if he really were casting a spell.

Those of you waiting have 13 minutes to go...Hope it's great!

Tuesday, July 17, 2007

a.m. conversation

Edith looks at a black box sitting next to the piano and frowns. "Mommy, I think this yours, but I not quite sure."

Quite?

"Edith it's time to go to school."
"No, I still cooking."
"Edith, I'm going to count to ten, and then you have to be done cooking."
"Okay, I give you some." Hands me pretend food.
"Mmmm...it's good. What is it?"
"A pink and plump and perfect cake."

A reference to Seven Silly Eaters. At the risk of being a bragging mama, I confess that I am utterly amazed these days by Edith's memory for songs and books. I don't know how many she has stored away in there, but it has become clear that when she asks us to read a book several times in a row, it's not just because she's enjoying it--it's because she's memorizing it. So, for example, on our walk to school I pointed out a father and son going to school ahead of us.

"Conrad and Harrison," she said.
"No, I don't think that's Harrison. I think that's the new baby." That triggered a Seven Silly Eaters association for me and I continued, "'Another baby, sweet and new.' Which one is that?" I asked Edith, genuinely trying to remember which of the seven silly eaters is so described. "Lucy?"
Edith reminded me,

"Another baby sweet and new
Was born--dear Lucy, small and fair,
With big blue eyes and curly hair.
But long before this child was grown,
She had opinions of her own
Of what she'd eat and what she'd not.
She hated milk, both cold and hot,
And warm was worst of all. Instead
Whenever Lucy dear was fed,
She bellowed for pink lemonade,
Not from a can...
....Oh, no...
Homemade."

There are 20 or so more pages to the book, but we'd arrived at school by then, so I don't know how long Edith would have continued. I wish she'd keep track of my dissertation sources for me.

Monday, July 16, 2007

We interrupt this parenting program...

...to bring you a fifth-anniversary getaway weekend, brought to you (or rather, to us) by the extended Lank family, part of which generously provided babysitting and another part of which provided the condo on the Chesapeake Bay to which Tom and I beat our retreat:

Whoops. That was an old fishing shack we saw on the bay. Try this:

Why does Tom look so serene? Check out his view:

The city dock in Crisfield, Maryland, as seen from the living room of Aunt Sharon's condo:

Looking back toward the town, marina in the middle. Crisfield, the southernmost municipality in Maryland, was once the largest fishing port in the nation, with more boats registered there than anywhere in the country. It still boasts one of the East Coast's largest marinas, but the town is a comfortably sleepy little place:


And since it's her blog, and especially since she (and her grandparents) suffered through her first stomach bug over the weekend, in Mom and Dad's absence, here's a picture of the kiddo. She slept this way for almost an hour:


We love her dearly, but an uninterrupted dinner conversation with one's spouse once every couple of years is a great thing.

Monday, July 09, 2007

The livin' is easy

Is there any better time of year than June and July? Long days, enveloping warmth, and a relaxed feeling pervading the air (dissertation or no).

We haven't gotten many good photos recently, and certainly none rivaling last year's 4th of July shots--but maybe that's part of the relaxation, too.

Edith and her friend Desi work on their bellies at the Jersey shore

Edith and Daddy at our local "beach": the fountain on campus

In the pool for one last swim with Annabeth, who moved to Indiana this week :(

Edith visits with Elan again, this time in Princeton, where they resume their blueberry eating contest. Edith gets expert assistance from Dr. Chavi.

Quiz: These people are posing as a group of former roommates. All claim to have been residents of McClellan B32 in the 1996-97 schoolyear. Which one is an imposter?


With Daddy playing on two different teams, we have spent lots of time on the softball field this summer.

Edielyn Monroe flirts with the golfers over Mom-mom and Pop-pop's back fence.


Thursday, July 05, 2007

Why Giving Birth is Better than Writing a Dissertation

A list I came up with during my lunch break Tuesday...

-Baby labor lasts several hours to several days; dissertation labor last several months to several years.

-The time spent squatting in the corner rocking back and forth moaning actually advances the process.

-Powerful as doctors are, they can’t push the baby back inside and tell you to cook it longer.

-Drugs are considered an acceptable way to manage the pain.

-If you get stuck, or if the process starts going badly, an expert takes charge and helps you finish the job in a matter of minutes.

-No one else will have a baby identical to yours—guaranteed.

-Even if the baby looks an awful lot like grandpa, no one will accuse you of copying another mother’s work.

-The name of the hospital where you deliver will have no bearing on your child’s future success.

-Delivering a baby = guaranteed weight loss; writing a dissertation = guaranteed inactivity.

-No matter the baby’s flaws, you’ll never be asked to start labor over from the beginning.

-Chances are good that your review committee will judge the baby brilliant, beautiful, and superior to all other babies without your having to say a word in its defense.

-The minute the baby is born, you land a full-time job, tenure guaranteed.