Sunday, November 01, 2009

A little wicked

A witch and her familiar visited our house yesterday

She was one mean witch

Preschool was anti-witch, so for the school parade Edith did pretty princess(-witch) in dress and shoes, no broom, hat or makeup.

With Torrey and Sarah


Alice enjoyed the parade, too

Trick-or-treating later in Oz--er, our old seminary neighborhood

We also made some special visits by car. Here's Edith with her babysitter, who was dressed as an iceberg preparing to go out with a Titanic friend

At our neighbor and friend Mrs. Harding's, Edith found her long-lost mother

Earlier in the day Edith enjoyed a sweeter alter ego on a playdate with new ballet class friend, Helen. It was hands down the best playdate we've ever had: the girls ran right off and played together sweetly, jumping into imaginary play in which they seemed to be on the same wavelength, never needing us to umpire any disputes or mete out any discipline. Edith didn't opt out, come hang at my side, and ask me to tell her stories, as she often does. Only when the girls were called for lunch did they come, and then they ate hungrily while we adults continued to talk. I was waiting for Edith to protest the artisan bread with crusts still on, but she dug in. When I gave her the five-minute warning that we were leaving, there were no protests or tears from either side. Helen's mom seemed as struck by the smoothness of the affair, and we agreed we'll definitely need to do this again.

There was time for one more persona before bed, a pirate

Even a rainy night didn't put out Edith's jack-o-lantern


Thanks to Brian Critz for what were, of course, the best pictures in the bunch, #2 and 3. Thanks to Mor-mor for the costumes!

6 comments:

Hobokener said...

Thank goodness Edith will pose for my photos, which Julia will never do anymore!

School's logic is interesting: witch too violent; martial-arts-expert humanoid turtles ok?

GEB said...

Yeah, don't get me started on school's logic. Ninja turtles are okay, as are rapacious plundering seafarers...but practitioners of an earth-based religion, too scary. But I guess our preschool isn't the only one: http://www.nytimes.com/2009/10/30/us/30costume.html?_r=1

twinkle-bot said...

We weren't allowed to have any costumes at all! Instead they had something called "fall festival." I love a secular seasonal approach as much as the next lefty, but you don't get to just insert it into the missing holiday and then go around saying "Happy Halloween" all day!

Those *are* great pictures, by the way. And where did you get such perfect shoes in a tiny size?

A. said...

Yup-- both Sam's preschool and now his public school don't celebrate any holidays that aren't celebrateable by all (potential) students. July 4th = in. Halloween = out.

GEB said...

But (not to pick on you guys personally, but because this trend bugs me): Who decides what's celebrateable by all? What about non-American students, especially from places exploited by the U.S.? Might they not find the 4th of July meaningless or even objectionable? Is Thanksgiving in or out? I think a general holiday for giving thanks for family, friends and blessings is a great idea, but I know places where it's most definitely out as either quasi-religious or offensive to Native Americans in its reminder of European ravaging of North America. Who decides what the meaning of each holiday is?

It makes me sad, because I think childhood without holidays is much impoverished. What fond memories I have of second grade, where when you finished your seat work you could choose to work on your reindeer or menorah or harvest cornucopia! Having grown up in heavily Jewish communities, I appreciate the problems with the overwhelming Christian influence in the public square around Christmastime in particular. But all in all, I think I'd prefer the "let's learn about and appreciate many holidays" approach that they take at our girls' daycare: from September to December they do Diwali, Halloween, Kwanzaa, Hannukah, Christmas...etc. Cultural celebrations as inherently offensive and divisive seems like a rather Puritanical approach to multicultural sensitivity.

New Teach said...

I had the same response as Hobokener (good thing we're married): Why is a witch more offensive than, say, a princess?