Best friends
Christine Lavin has a song, the title of which I forget, about babysitting a friend's child and being overwhelmed with happiness and gratitude when the little girl affectionately tells her at bedtime, "Today was the best day of my whole entire life." Proud of her babysitting prowess, she reports the comment to the parents when they come home, only to have them laugh and respond, "Katie says the same thing every day." I don't remember the rest of the song, but I do recall that Christine Lavin doesn't allow for the fact that Katie might be telling the truth: Maybe her life is a string of wonderful days, every one better than the one before.
Edith's friends stand to experience a similar letdown these days if they, too, understand superlatives like an adult rather than like a two year old. The day before Father's Day, Edith came out with, "Daddy's my best friend," thrilling both her parents with that sweet and well-timed pronouncement. But a few days later it was "Mommy, you my best friend." Then in the car this weekend, "Santiago my best friend," followed quickly by "Harry my best friend."
We're going to allow for the possibility that Edith is not being either mercurial, ingratiating or calculating but that perhaps, in the world of a two year old, there is no limit to the number of best friends one can have.






2 comments:
FYI, the song title, according to my copy of the CD, is actually "Katy Says Today Is the Best Day of My Whole Entire Life". As you might have supposed. :)
That Father's Day picture is enough to melt a heart of stone. What a great thing to have . . . especially in those, um, less heart-melting moments!
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